New addition

Hi all,

Our new family addition, Adasa Helene, came into the world at 9:04 am this morning. She weighed in at 7.4 lbs and was 19 inches long. Both her and April are doing fine. She already has daddy wrapped around her finger. Colby gave her a kiss, but wasn't too sure of her at 1st. I'm sure that he'll be a great big brother.
Talk to you later - love Ken, April, Colby and Adasa.

Dad, where's Christmas?

Well, tomorrow is the big day. Child #2 will arrive. It will kick-start an eventful week in the Banks household. Colby's 3rd birthday is on Monday, as is Christmas Eve - a fun day for sure; and then Tuesday is Christmas - the day we celebrate the birth of our Saviour, Jesus. This time of year will never be the same for us - not that it wasn't important before...but now we'll also have 2 kids with birthdays during Christmas week. Oh, I can hear the complaints about parties and presents already.
Getting used to a new born again will probably take a few minutes, but I truly am looking forward to the new addition...but I ask myself, now that Colby is sleeping through the night; potty trained and doesn't need constant attention, why are we going to put ourself through all of that again? More on that later...
Now that Colby is virtually 3, he is into asking many questions. We can take the 10 minute ride from home into town, and do nothing but answer questions from his inquiring mind. Many of them begin with 'WHY?' "Patience, Lord", is a frequent thought in my mind. But I'm sure that my parents endured it, as do all parents, and if we (I) are careful to answer and not blow up, then we're teaching our kids something right there - that they matter.
Many of his questions in recent weeks have revolved around Christmas. Why are things decorated?, Why a tree?, Why buy presents?, etc. Of course, we share a Bible story each night before bed, and that stirs a lot of questions too. The other day, he asked why Jonah made the world. Still some work to do, I see...
One question that caught my attention, was when he asked, "Dad, where's Christmas?" I don't think that Colby was looking for an in depth answer or even a theological one - it was just a question that popped into his head. So, of course, I talk to him about the idea of Christmas - both the spiritual side and the Santa side...and his response is, "Oh". Then, another question comes roaring out. But that funny, little question has stuck with me...
So, I ask myself - where is Christmas for me? Is it in the gifts (both giving and receiving)? Is it in the busyness (church life and private)? Is it in family? Or, is Christmas - now catch this - found in my response to what happened in a manger. Am I living like God is among us...
Thankfully, Christmas is not in the North Pole; under a tree or at the mall...it's in the heart of those who worship Jesus - the one who fulfilled, "For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life." So, where's Christmas for you?
Merry Christmas!!

Send revival, Start with me.

Pastor Ken

A baby, 2 homes and 3 French hens...

Wow...a lot has happened in my life since my last posting. As you may have guessed, I am blog-challenged when it comes to a weekly blog. However, I'll do my best to keep it up; especially over the event filled Christmas season.
As I write this, my wife could be having a baby...not quite, but the day is fast approaching. She will find out tomorrow just how close we are - I may have some news for you in next weeks blog. I am sure excited about another addition to the family...but I can feel my hair greying as I type.
Well, we finally moved into our new home - 2 days before Halloween. It is exciting and helpful for us to think that we now have a place to call our own. It seems like a perfect fit for us and we have all kinds of plans and dreams for what it could be in the future. Of course, moving is always (at least to me) stressful...but I have to give a BIG shout out of thanks to many in my church who helped move us out of the old parsonage and into our new home. Without their 'many hands' it would have been a much more trying experience. But not only did they help us move - many others also helped us clean out the old home and set up the new. A great group of people they are for sure!
I also want to thank the church for having the vision to sell the parsonage and allow us to buy our own place. This will give us a running head start for the future years - but it also frees them up from the need to keep up an aging parsonage.
But, as many of you would know, now that we own our home, the bills are flying in...a reality of life.
Christmas...Are you ready for it? I haven't been in the 'mood' yet, but I did catch myself singing some carols the other day. The church is looking very festive (thanks Linda), as is our home (thanks April) - so that is helping to speed up the process. However, Christmas isn't about the mood, or a tree or even 3 French hens...but more on that next week.
As Christmas approaches, I want to be able to enjoy the season - even though life's busy (I did two family weddings this past weekend) with lots of Christmas events / a baby arriving and who knows what else. I'll be pondering how to do just that in the coming weeks...stay tuned.
If you check back next week, I'll be considering the thought - "Dad, where's Christmas?"
Have a great week!

Send Revival, Start with Me!

Pastor Ken

It isn't so much about not flying the flag...

Having had a couple of Mondays away on vacation and with family visiting last week, I've hardly had a chance to think about this blog. But here I am, trying to get back into the flow...
While I was away, during the beginning and mid parts of the month, a controversial decision was made by Truro town council to not fly the Gay Pride Flag. Most of the controversy, as I understand it, came from the impression that the mayor is not tolerant of the gay lifestyle and that he used his Christian faith as a basis for that stance. Something like 7000 letters to the editor were written in on this topic. This issue even received national news coverage.
Most of the other council members stated that they had their own reasons for not wanting to fly the flag...but it was mainly the mayor - the Christian mayor - who bore the brunt of the criticism. The issue has now been sent to the Human Rights Commission by the gay community - I suppose in an effort to force the town into flying the flag and make an apology.
What I wanted to do in this blog was not debate whether or not the town should fly the flag, but rather, look at why a Christian might make a decision such as what the mayor of Truro did. Some have said that the mayor should keep his religious beliefs to himself and outside of the political arena, but what those people do not understand is that Christianity is not one single book in our life's library, it is, in fact, the whole thing. In other words, a Christian does not separate their faith from their work or their relaxation. They are always a Christian, no matter what the environment or situation. Other people do that everyday - they live by their worldview - I just find it fascinating that tolerance isn't often granted towards the Christian community these days, otherwise why the big fuss over the flag. Isn't it just two opposing worldviews? Society is no longer tolerant of the church's position that Jesus is the way...'Go and sin no more'...;it may tolerate the church, but its views are not welcome in modern day life.
Why might this be? Perhaps because society doesn't want to acknowledge its flaws and subsequent need for a Saviour. Whether or not you abide by the Bible - the basis for the Christian worldview - here is what is says in I Cor. 6:9-11; "Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God."
As you can see, there is quite a list - not exhaustive - of people that won't be a part of God's kingdom. Yet, the wonderful thing about Christianity is that it is hope based. Christianity is about transformation - not tolerance. God desires to change us from what we are in our flawed (sinful) state into one that is transformed by the renewing of our mind (Romans 12:2) and life. Note how I Cor. 6:11 says that some of the believers used to practice 'wicked' activities. But no matter the past, God can change the present.
I've heard it argued in this debate that Christians should practice the love they 'preach' about, and not be against others who may be different. But love without the hope of change/transformation from our fallen state is an incomplete Christian message that does no one any eternal good.
Should homosexuals - or others who are different - be discriminated against? Never...and for that there should be no excuse…however, that does nor mean that I have to agree with what they do. For those that want to fly the flag or take part in rallies, that’s their choice, just as it’s my choice to believe in and follow the teachings of Jesus. For those that disagree with the Bible or Christ, feel free to state that, but do not discriminate against me because I choose to believe. If discrimination is wrong one way – then it’s wrong the other. Live life your way, but let the Church be the Church with its message of life change and transformation. For those that accept it, it’s a matter of choice.
It isn't so much about not flying the flag, as it is standing up for what you believe is truth. If that is wrong, then we're all in trouble.
Let me know what you think.

"Send Revival, Start with me."

Pastor Ken

If you want your light to shine, go to the dark places

Addition to the Sunday sermon:
Little Bo Peep has lost her sheep
And doesn't know where to find them
But leave them alone, and they'll come home
Wagging their tails behind them
In this familiar children's poem, we realize that Bo Peep has a problem. She has lost her sheep and has no idea of their whereabouts. But evidently, the optimist in her thinks that if they are left alone, then eventually, they'll find their way home.
Unfortunately, there are many Christians who feel the same way when it comes to those who are unsaved (non-Christian). We live in a country where there are 70-80% of the population who would be classified as unchurched - meaning that they do not regularly attend any Christian church. To put it another way, roughly 7-8 out of 10 of your neighbours do not regularly go to a church.
Too many of of our community churches look at this group and take a Bo Peep position. They fail to see the hurts and needs of the spiritually lost and fail to effectively reach out to them. These churches take the attitude, 'If they want to change - they know where the church is.' In reality, these churches are so focused on themselves, that they fail to focus on what God is calling it to do.
By contrast, there are also churches who take a Good Shepherd approach. A church of the Good Shepherd, models the story told by Jesus, when, even with 99 sheep safely in the pasture - He goes out into the rough, rocky places to seek out that one sheep who is lost.
Our modern day predicament is that there are 20-30 sheep in the pasture, and 70-80 who are lost in the rough and rocky places of life. The church of the Good Shepherd is one that intentionally endeavours to share hope and help with those within its reach.
Our challenge, then, is to become a people who are willing to stretch ourselves, sacrifice and focus on the needs of those around us.
Are you more interested in helping than being helped?
Are you more interested in loving than in being loved?
Are you more interested in giving than in getting?
These are characteristics of a Good Shepherd church.
How would you rate yourself? Are you a Bo Peep Christian or a Good Shepherd Christian? Or are you one of the lost sheep? I would love to hear from you...

"Send Revival, Start with Me."

Pastor Ken

Yes, I am alive...

Hi. For anyone checking in, I'll have a regular blog thought later today. It's been awhile since I last posted, but Colby has been in the hospital; I've been to Beulah Camp; and had family down for a visit - so my Mondays have been pretty pre-occupied.
Thanks for checking in. - Ken

Loyalty

Man's Best Friend. That would definitely be the tag that I'd have used to describe my relationship with my dog, Sheba - a purebred Siberian husky, with icy blue eyes.
Unfortunately, I had to put her to sleep on Saturday, after nearly 13 years of friendship. She was just about 15 years old, when arthritis in her hips got the best of her. Putting her to sleep was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do - even though it was in her best interest. She was a good dog; a faithful dog and a wonderful companion.
If you've never gotten close to a dog (or any animal), then I can imagine that one would find it difficult to relate to how close a bond can be formed. But believe me, a pet can become like a member of the family.
Over the last couple of days, I've been reflecting on my time with her and the word that comes to my mind is that of loyalty. I'm sure that many people can say that about their dog - but to me, she was the poster-dog for that word.
Never once did she bite anyone, let alone me. She remained when others left. She was excited when I was around; and sad when I wasn't (so I'm told). She loved others, especially children. She had a wonderful disposition - never getting nasty or angry, even when Colby would haul on her or pull her fur. Oh sure, she had a few faults, but they hardly seem relevant now.
Perhaps, we can all learn a lesson from her life - a dog's life:
-Never bite anyone: Christians are to by-pass the urge to attack others, aren't we? -> whether it be verbally, thru gossip or any other form.
-Stay true to others, especially other Christians: Don't abandon people (no matter their faults), but look for those that need to be encouraged.
-Be interested in others: If our thoughts are only on ourselves, we miss out on fellowship, unity and the strength found in those who are interested in you.
-Love others: Don't reason it out, but like Sheba, just do it.
-Be kind: People will pull your fur - how we react shows how willing we are to allow Christ to transform us.
Thanks for the memories, Sheba.

"Send Revival, Start with Me".

Pastor Ken

Glad for Dad

Even though yesterday was an active day for me (2 services plus a nursing home service), it was an enjoyable Father's Day. The weather was nice and I had a chance to spend time with my son. Ever since Thursday, Colby has been telling me that he bought me a present. He never spilled the beans to tell me what it was, but he certainly was excited about it. April told me that at first, he tried getting me a bag of chips, then a kids swimming pool - but finally settled on some golf items. I'm certainly glad to be a father. Colby brings so much joy to my world.

I was also thinking of my own father yesterday...and had the chance to call him last night. I don't tell him very often, but I'm also very glad that he's my dad. I have tremendous memories of doing things with him as a boy; and still enjoy spending time with him today. In more ways than one, he's my role model. I can only hope to be such a father to my son.

I came across this article the other day, and thought that it might be appropriate to post it here. Among so many great things about my dad, I'm glad that he is a Matt. 7 kind of man.

"A minister concluded his sermon one Sunday by saying, "If there's someone here who wants help in getting to know God, and you would like me to pray for you, please raise your hand." A young man stood up and said, "Please pray for me, sir. The burden of my sin is too heavy to bear."

After the service, the minister talked with the man and led him to faith in Jesus. The young man had been wandering around the country for 8 years without contacting his parents, so he decided to write to them and tell them about the change in his life.

Several days later, a reply came from his mother: "My dear son, you must have accepted Jesus Christ at the same hour your father went home to heaven. He had been sick for a long time, and that day he was very restless. He tossed from side to side on his bed, crying out, 'Lord, please save my poor, wandering boy.' I'm sure that one of the reasons you became a Christian was Dad's unceasing intercession."

A praying father will "ask," "seek," and "knock" in behalf of his children, persistently trusting his wise heavenly Father to do what is best (Matthew 7:7-11)."
(From the 'Our Daily Bread' daily devotional; June 15, 2003)

Happy Father's Day!

"Send Revival, Start with Me."

Pastor Ken

Service in the Park

Hi again. Last Monday, we were away on a vacation break. It was enjoyable but its always nice to be back.
I wanted to begin this week's blog with some thank you's for those that played a big role in this past weekend's "Service in the Park". If you're not familiar with what that is...we had the LaPointes, of Fredericton, hold a concert at Truro's Victoria Park - which was free to the community - where we passed out bottles of water to anyone and everyone who came into the park, and then we (Central Nova Wesleyan) closed the day by hosting a BBQ, also in the Park. It was a great day!
Over 250 people attended the service; 270 bottles of chilled water were handed out to people passing by; and over 150 people were served at the BBQ.
It was a great opportunity for our church to offer something 'free' to the community, and to connect with many people that we did not know - a special thanks to the board for supporting such an endeavour and to the church, in general, for rallying behind it by inviting friends and family who aren't a part of church life.
Those that I'm about to thank would not expect me to do this, but that's what makes it all the more important to recognize their help.
Darren/Naomi S. - Thanks for donating the 504 bottles of water
Barry/Nikki H. - Thanks for donating the specialized labels for the bottles
Marilyn/Claude R. - Thanks for setting up the BBQ
Dave H. - Thanks for getting the ice (free) and for your willingness to do 'whatever'
Gordon S. - Thanks for helping pass out the water
Shannon A. - Thanks for heading up the kids ministry
Thanks to the many other numerous volunteers who helped out, either by serving, cooking or in any other way that contributed to this outreach's success.
If somehow I've missed someone that should have been mentioned by name, I do apologize. I know that many of you gave of your time to help us connect with others. THANKS!
Next week, I'll be sharing a few thoughts on Father's Day. Stop by the church this weekend if you're looking for a place to attend church. We've got an inmate from Westmoreland Institute in Dorchester speaking at 10:30 am on Sunday.

"Send Revival, Start with me."

Pastor Ken

Say 'Awwwww...'

Today, I was at the dentist. I had the privilege of receiving the 2nd of 3 fillings I need due to cavities. I've never been particularly fond of the dentist - but neither have I particularly minded it. It's one of those things in life that I endure, knowing that it's for my overall benefit.
However, I need to evaluate why I had 3 cavities that needed attention in the first place. Of course, I could blame the snack food industry and the pop conglomerates - for, after all, their treats are filled with sugar and teeth rotting ingredients. It should be obvious that its their fault for forcing all their tasty morsals my way. In reality, I could be seen as the victim for years of being force fed those vile snacks. I mean, it really is true, 'you can't eat just one'.
And yet, somehow, I don't think that that argument will work. I guess that no one really forced me to indulge.
Perhaps, it had more to do with the fact that I hadn't been to a dentist in 6 years, prior to moving to Truro. Since July, I've been to see him 4 times. That's 4 times in the last 10 months or 4 times more than I'd been to a dentist in the last 72 months. Ouch! I guess the dentist did say that it could've been worse. Perhaps that explains why I have 2 more visits scheduled in the next 3 months.
Oh, it's fun catching up...all the needles, drills and rinses.
As I think about our spiritual life (walk, journey), I wonder how often we might let things slide, like I did with the dentist. You know, the walk with God stuff. Reading the Bible - not just to do it, but to discover the riches that God wants to say to you on that particular day or moment; spending some thoughtful and soulful time in prayer - for the lost, as Jesus called them, and for the presence of God to be evident - really evident - like the 'old-timers' used to talk about; or about making a difference to those in difficulty or need - thinking beyond ourselves (which I find quite easy to let slide).
As I discovered with my cavities, if we allow the 'routine' things (ie: dentist visits) to pass by, there is a price. Could it be that same way in our spiritual life, if we skip over or take lightly the things that God uses to make us like Him?
Wonder what the church would look like if we all skipped our God visits. Would it look differently than today?
What do you think? Let me know...I appreciate your feedback.

"Send Revival, Start with Me"

Pastor Ken

I'm Back...

House shopping. It's not all that it's cracked up to be. For the last 6 weeks or so, April and I have been looking for a potential new home. We, of course, currently live in a church owned parsonage. It is up for sale and we're waiting to see if it will be bought. It needs to be sold in order for us to be able to pick out our next family abode. Because we're in limbo, and unsure as to what the future will hold, we're trying not to get too anxious about it all. However, we can't help but think of packing and preparing in the event of a move. We're certainly ready to do just that. In fact, we've already chosen a home and placed a conditional offer on it. The condition being that the parsonage sells.
Because it's out of our hands and the possibility exists that someone else could swoop in and buy up 'our' future home - we are on 'proverbial' pins and needles waiting. This is where house shopping is not all that it's cracked up to be.
It has been fun, mind you, looking at possibilities of where we may end up living. Comparing amenities of one property over those of another. Thinking of neighbourhoods in which we would like to raise our family - all within our price range, of course. Trying to haggle a 'good' bargain and sensing that we're pleased with the transaction is all a part of the excitement.
But then there's the waiting...the uncertainty...what if the parsonage doesn't sell? Will we be satisfied with going back to live there, even though we never left (it's a mind thing now)? What if someone else buys the house that we want? Oh, the inhumanity...
Whether it's buying a house, or living life in general, we can find truth and sanity in the words of Paul in Philippians 4:11-12, "I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want."
Being content truly is a secret that far too few of us have learned. We're often looking for what's next...the latest and greatest...something that will give us a thrill in life. I have fallen victim to that (or am I the guilty one).
Being content doesn't mean that we don't look for opportunities or ways in which to be better - it means that we're not stressed out, in competition with others, or comparing what we have with what we do not. I guess it's being ok with where we find ourselves at any particular moment.
House shopping...it's not that big of a deal. I just need to learn to be content.
What do you think?

"Send Revival, Start with Me."

Pastor Ken

"It's the Best of Times, It's the Worst of Times."

My thought was not published last week due to my being away.
Since my last posting a couple of weeks ago, we've been made aware of some disturbing events in the news: the deaths of several Canadian soldiers in Afghanistan (the most since the Korean Conflict in the 50's); the tragic shootings (deaths and injuries) in Virginia; and to a lesser degree, the ramblings of Don Imus.
Of course, there have been other news items, but these 3 quickly come to mind. I heard someone say on a television program last week, that perhaps there isn't any more violence (action or spoken) in the world today than in the past - it's just that with the easy and quick access of TV and the internet, we hear and see it much more in today's world. I'm sure that that is open to debate, but it certainly sounds plausible.
Of course, violence and hate language have been around forever. Just think of the Biblical story of Cain and Abel - and the many, many examples since then. There is something within us that seems drawn to violence. Even in sports, watch the crowds when a bench-clearing brawl starts or a fight in hockey. Now, granted, most people do not support murder and acts of violence towards innocent people - but within the heart of man, there is the possibility to do some nasty things. Look at how the vast majority of the Germans were 'conned' into what they accepted and participated in during WWII. They certainly were a civilized and cultured people.
If we think back to the French Revolution in the 1700's, we see a time of chaos and violence. There was much suffering and bloodshed in that nation. It's been said that England was on the same path as France, but something significant took place there to help turn things around. When John Wesley began his ministry in 1738, morality and religion had collapsed in England. In May of that year, Wesley had his Aldersgate (conversion) experience and went out to minister to the multitudes in the open fields. A century later, the social and moral climate of England had changed dramatically. Queen Victoria was on the throne and “Victorian” became a synonym for piety and morality. Conditions can change for the better. It has happened.
What John Wesley and others like him proclaimed, was that the way to change the heart and frustration of man was to accept the grace and forgicveness of Christ and to live as a True Follower. Oh, some will say, look at what the 'Christians' did during the Crusades, or in the difficult days between Ireland's Protestant's and Catholic's. Well, I would counter that many of those believers were in name only and had not experienced a changed/transformed heart.
The true Christian lives a life like that of Christ - full of compassion, love, help and heart holiness.
Be in prayer for the families who have been affected by recent acts of violence - but also check your heart; do others know that you're a Christian by your love?

Let me know what you think.

"Send Revival, Start with Me"

Pastor Ken

Rockin' Robin

As much as I enjoy a large stowstorm (when I don't have to travel), I truly love the perks that come with spring - warmer weather; flowers, new life (green grass, tree buds), and being able to go for walks without having to bundle up. And as summer gets closer, it only gets better for me.
A sure sign that spring has arrived is when you begin to notice the robins. As I look out my office window, I see several of them hopping around the yard. I remember a time back in kindergarten when our teacher told us that if we took a shaker of salt and ran after the robins that were gathered in our play area, we could catch one and make it our pet if we got close enough to throw the salt on its tail. I certainly can recall running around the yard many times with a salt shaker trying to do just that. But I have to tell you, I never got close enough to actually sprinkle the salt on any bird. So, in theory, I'll never know whether or not what she was telling us was true or not. (Though, as an adult, I certainly can reason that it was simply a way to keep our young minds and bodies busy).
We, who share the Christian worldview, will be celebrating Easter (Christ's death and resurrection) this coming weekend. Many others (neighbours, friends, family) will only be celebrating a holiday. Then there will be those who ignore Easter altogether.
For most, outside the Christian faith, there is a struggle to buy into the resurrection component of Christ's story. It seems quite outlandish (ie: a childish fairytale) to believe that anyone can come back to life once truly dead. Our adult and scientific minds don't allow for that sort of thing to happen.
However, if it could be done, then it only stands to reason that God Himself could do it - if in fact He is the giver and taker of life. Most people in Canada (75+%) suggest that they believe in God, though less than 25% attend church on any sort of regular basis. There is a disconnect there - especially if we feel that God wants to have a personal relationship with us. In fact, that's what Easter is all about - Jesus providing a way for mankind to bridge the gap that keeps us from knowing God.
Like I did as a child, when I bought into the notion of catching robins with salt - we too, must use simple faith when considering the great sacrifice of Christ on the cross and His subsequent resurrection. Some will say that they are one in the same - foolishness...but because of my experience with God in the past and the present - no one can ever convince me that Jesus is not the risen Lord and forgiver of my sin.
This blog is not designed to 'convince' anyone of the facts - simply to say that in order to buy into this age-old story - we must begin with a first step. Child-like faith that says, 'ok God, I'll trust You...now help me to know it.'
In Luke 24, we read of where the angels asked the women at the empty tomb, "Why are you looking for the living among the dead?" Perhaps too many of us are doing the same. We expect that Christ is dead, and so we look for His bones and tomb. Instead, reach out to Him - seek Him - and see if He is not real. Let Him prove Himself. Have a blessed Easter. Let me know what you think.

"Send Revival. Start with Me"

Pastor Ken

Almonds, anyone?

With April's Fools Day just around the corner - I wonder how many of us will attempt to pull a practical joke on someone.
Even though I think that I have a pretty good sense of humour, practical jokes aren't my specialty. Oh, I try, and sometimes I'll have some success, but for the most part - I just sit back and enjoy what other people try to do.
I recall a time when at Bethany Bible College, a friend of mine - who we'll call Kirk Perry - offered some almonds to me. Now if you know me, I enjoy eating most kinds of nuts (cashews being my favorite). I ate them and enjoyed them. However, as I was gobbling down this treat, I kept thinking that there was a slight hint of chocolate to these almonds. Oh well, nothing too serious. Well, it turns out that this friend of mine - who pastors on Grand Manaan - had originally had chocolate covered almonds, sucked off all the chocolate and gave them to me; pretending to be kind and generous. You can imagine my disgust when the truth came out.
That is an example of a practical joke that got completely out of hand. Well, to be honest, if it had been me giving them away, I too, would have thought it to be quite funny. Kirk, I hold no hard feelings - it was a good joke. However, humour can sometimes be lost on us if we're the brunt of the joke.
It's interesting how our words or actions can affect other people. I am saddened that sometimes we in the church say or do things towards others that are not uplifting, edifying or encouraging - but rather slanderous, painful and outright wrong (dare I say evil?). James reminds us in 3:10, "My brothers, this should not be." As opinionated and self righteous as we might like to think we are, God's word reminds us to consider others before ourselves. What does this mean? If I wouldn't want to eat disgusting almonds, then I shouldn't pass them on to others, either. It is easy to get uptight about what someone might do - or what I might perceive them to be about...but as a Christian - a follower of Jesus - then I need to lay down my selfish need to be right, or in control, or judgmental. I need to be a builder, not a destroyer.
If we put both verse 9 and 10 of chapter 3 together, James states, "With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God's likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be."
With April Fool's approaching, will we allow ourselves to be reminded of ways in which we've slandered, gossiped, lied about and caused pain to another - and correct that wrong? It's time to stop being a fool and be a true follower - of the Master.

What do you think? Hit the comment button to let me know.

"Sends Revival, Start with Me"

Pastor Ken

Just sit right back and you'll hear a tale, a tale of a fateful trip...

William Shedd, a nineteenth century pastor and theologian, wrote, “A ship is safe in a harbor, but that’s not what ships are for.”
Obviously, ships are for sailing. Some are built for speed, some for carrying cargo, some for looks, but all for sailing.
I have a 10 foot Sea Doo (not sure whether that qualifies as a ship or not), that I truly enjoy. There's nothing better than getting out on the water on a beautiful day and cruising around. However, at the moment, it is safely stowed away for the winter. Because of that, I'm not able to enjoy it. Oh, I could sit on it and pretend that I'm sailing the ocean waters...but that would be a poor interpretation of the real thing.
Sometimes, as I reflect on the modern day church, I feel that we have settled for a poor imitation of the real thing. As I mentioned in the sermon yesterday morning, too many churches are solely focused on keeping the doors open and the lights turned on. We should never be satisfied with just doing the bare minimum, as God's people.
The church of Jesus Christ is called to reach the world and to impact people with the hope of salvation and of life change. It's a big vision...and it requires a big commitment on our part. If the church is to remain relevant and truly have an impact on the community - then we must get out of the harbor. Jesus showed us that living outside of the comfort zone led to possibilities and opportunities. Yes, it produced risk as well; but who said being a Christian ought to be safe?
There's a ship in Halifax that never leaves the harbor. It has a rich history of effectiveness and naval service. HMCS Sackville served well in WWII and beyond. However, today, it is a museum/memorial to days gone by. It's a good endeavour to have the ship serve as a reminder of Canada's naval past, but the ship was never intended to be a museum. When it was built, it had a far greater purpose - but over time, it became out of date and irrelevant. The church (or its people) should never suffer the same fate. If we become a museum of days gone by, then it's because we stopped ministering to others and finding ways to impact and influence them. Jesus never meant for the church to stay in the harbor - He intends for it to sail.

What do you think? How can the church be relevant in 2007?

"Send revival, Start with Me"

Pastor Ken

Part 2

As you may have noticed, I'm a week late in getting to my blog. Sorry for that. I've now adjusted the blog so that anyone can leave me a 'comment' feedback - please feel free to do so.
What should be my reaction - as a Christian - when unexpected difficulties come my way? That was the question that I last left you with. Well, speaking from my own experiences, I often react in the following ways - frustration, anger, worry, grief, disillusionment, sorrow, etc. Of course, depending upon the severity of the difficulty, that determines my exact response.
Some would suggest that a Christian is somehow isolated from the 'reality' of these difficulties (ie: sickness, a death, a job-loss, a bill, a rejection). All we need to do is spout a Bible verse, put on a plastic smile and keep on keeping on. How foolish. Whether we're a Christian or not, we're still human. Feelings are present; uncertainties persist; questions about the future stare us in the face. But I'm learning to understand that it's not the severity of the difficulty that matters nor is it the reason for why it happened all that important. Lessons can be learned, of course, but there's more to the story.
While my reaction to these things may mirror those of an average person (Christian or not), it is the Hope that a believer has in Christ that can make all the difference. Now, the example that I shared last time of the unexpected hospital bill may not shout "HOPE OF CHRIST", but God cares about such things (Blue Cross has since taken care of the bill). When we go through a divorce, God cares; when a spouse dies, God cares; when severe sickness comes, God cares; when we lose a job, God cares...it doesn't matter how large or small - if it affects us, then God cares and He cares deeply.
But it doesn't stop there. If it did, it wouldn't be Hope. I recall being in a deep state of hopelessness. I didn't see any light at the end of the tunnel. I had suffered a great blow and I didn't know what was ahead, and in many ways, I didn't care. Life just 'sucked', for lack of a better word.
But through it all, I had Hope that God was there with me and that He would somehow work things out. In the midst of frustration, anger, worry, grief, disillusionment and sorrow - God showed me that He could heal my hurt; help me get beyond my bitterness and allow me a rebuilt life. You see, it wasn't my circumstance that needed changing, it was me. I trusted Him, though it took awhile to do so completely, and I re-discovered that He is faithful.
So, is a Christian's reaction any different to life's circumstances? Perhaps not. Some of us carry on while some complain. Yet at the end of the day - a Christian has a Hope that none other has - but He is available to all who truly ask.

"Send Revival, Start with Me."

Pastor Ken

When The Unexpected Show Up

No, I'm not referring to the in-laws.
Early in January, when we were in Florida, our son Colby, became sick and was diagnosed with pneumonia. We, of course, had taken him to a local hospital since he was running a fever and would not sleep (it was the middle of the night). We only had to wait a couple of minutes before we were ushered out of the waiting room, and into the area where he could be examined. A couple of nurses were on the scene and soon after a couple of doctors. The service was very good and rather quick, compared to what I've experienced here in Canada, at times.
After some discussion, Colby was given some medication, had a couple of needles, had some x-rays taken and was given a couple of prescriptions to make sure that he was well.
Of course, while we were still there, a hospital accountant came in for a visit. He took our information - including our health insurance - and went off to make sure that we could pay for all the good care that we received. A short time later, he came back and told me that I needed to come and speak with my insurance carrier. After a 20 minute conversation, I was assured that they would take care of everything.
Well, today, the unexpected showed up. A bill from the hospital totalling my weekly salary. Ouch!
Often in life, we encounter the unexpected - a sickness, a death, a job-loss, a bill, a rejection - and the list could go on and on. Generally speaking, these type of situations have a negative affect on us. We perhaps, become discouraged, disillusioned, or even desparate.
Obviously, there are times when the "unexpected" are moments of happiness. Perhaps someone gives us an unexpected gift, or takes us out for a meal, or says something nice to us out of the blue. These are moments to appreciate and enjoy.
However, much of the time, we experience the 'unexpected' in the difficult events of life. As a Christian, how should I react to these events? Put on a smile? Pretend that it doesn't get me down? Re-state that there undoubtedly is someone worse off than me?
I have my thought on this matter - But I'd like to hear from you first. What should be my reaction - as a Christian - when unexpected difficulties come my way? Let me know @ pastorken93@hotmail.com
I'll share my thought with you next Monday.

"Send Revival. Start with me."

Pastor Ken

Forward Living

4 years prior to my birth...that's when it happened. 1967. The last time the storied franchise called the Toronto Maple Leafs won hockey's Stanley Cup. Right now, I'm looking at an art print of the players from that team. They look young and happy as they sit/stand around the fabled Cup. But as I now think about it, those men are all senior citizens. You see, it's been 40 years since they were champions.
But yet, on Saturday night, the organization brought back most of those same players from the 66-67 team. In a moving tribute to a team that showed grit and determination - the modern day crowd stood and applauded in a genuine fashion. In a way, the city (and all Leaf fans) were celebrating a Stanley Cup victory. For a hockey city that has not had a hockey celebration in 40 years - this was as good as it's been in a long time.
I appreciate the past. We can learn so much from it. We are to remember that which has been done and accomplished prior to our arrival. In fact, who we are and where we're going is fashioned, to a large degree, by what has been before us. But we cannot live there. Following the ceremony to the the former hockey heroes last Saturday - the puck was dropped and a new game was played. It isn't natural - I'll explain below - to live in the past, and not be forward living people.
Every year we celebrate a birthday (whether we like it or not). Our birthday is a remembrance of the beginning of our life here on earth. But it is not a re-living of that experience. We grow and change as our birthdays increase. We're not living in the past, but celebrating today. Without the past, we're incomplete, but to not move ahead is to not truly live our life.
For the church to not be forward living is detrimental. Some of what used to be effective and powerful needs to stay in the past. It was effective then, but now God is using other means. It will be the same with those things eventually, as well. If we stay focused on what was and not grow with what God wants to do in our current world, then we'll be missing out on the 'newness' of how God desires to use His people.
I'm certainly not advocating changing the foundations of our faith - and I'm not talking specifically of music or preaching styles. But if the church is not relevant to today's world, then the church is not relevant at all.
We can stand and applaude the past, but the puck is being dropped on a new game. Christ is still the Head of the Church and He still calls us to follow Him.
Will we follow Him - no matter what that may mean - as we march forward to Zion.
Let me know what you think - pastorken93@hotmail.com

P.S. Montreal Canadiens were the defeated foe back in 1967 :)

"Send Revival, Start with Me."
Pastor Ken

F.O.R.D.

I guess the joke is true after all. Our new (to us) car of 2 months, died today and left April stranded in town. It, of course, is a Ford. A 2002 Focus wagon to be exact. The #1 selling car in the world. The joke that used to go around - and perhaps still does - suggested that the letters of Ford stood for Found On Road Dead. As of this afternoon, that statement took on a whole new meaning for me.
Well, as you can imagine, no one expects or wants something that they've invested in to fail them - especially so quickly. The car was, after all, inspected thoroughly by a reputable dealer prior to the purchase. It had been well maintained by the previous owner under a leased condition. The mileage was not high. The price was right. It seemed like the perfect buy.
But there I was, standing on the side of the road, watching the tow truck load my car onto the flatbed - and all after only 2 payments.
As it turns out, it appears that the problem is with the alternator. It needs to be replaced. A belt also had been damaged, and needed to be replaced. There is also the fee for the tow. The $$$ signs were beginning to mount.
Back when we bought the car, the dealer tried to get us to purchase an extended warranty. I'm not a fan of such things - feeling that it is wasted money. The package that he was 'pushing' sounded great but was rather expensive in my mind. Surely nothing would go wrong with my car, I thought. However, after talking with April, we decided that it would be best to have the security and peace of mind.
As I reviewed the warranty coverage today, I took note that it said towing was covered; labour was covered and alternator replacement was covered. Oh, how I love that extended warranty!
Yesterday, I took part in the funeral of an 80 year old man. By everyone's account, he was a great person and a model citizen (25 year veteran of the military). The thing that struck me most though, was when his grandson got up and spoke of a moment that occurred just 4 years ago. A former pastor was visiting him and had asked the question, "If you died today, do you know that you'd go to heaven?" His response, was honest - "No". The pastor assured him that he could know, and that day he became a Christian - trusting his future with Jesus Christ.
Today, that gentleman is in heaven - in the presence of the Lord. Not because he was good or kind or had invested much in his life. But because he had accepted the warranty.
The unique thing about this warranty however, is that someone else paid the cost (see John 3:16). All that is needed to be under its coverage is to accept the free offer. Have you?

"Send Revival, Start with Me."

Pastor Ken

Am I reckless?

Tonight, I was chasing Colby, my 2-year old son, around the house. He loves it when his mother or I run after him, as if we were trying to catch him. He laughs and giggles and seems like he's having the time of his life.
Sometimes, though, he gets too carried away. Rather than paying attention to where he's going - he runs straight ahead while looking behind him, checking to see how close we are.
Well, tonight he ran right into the front door. He's a tough kid...it didn't really do any damage - just a red mark on his cheek. After a quick hug, he was on his way again.
Being 2, Colby is just now really entering into his 'reckless' stage. If something is risky or dangerous, that's where I'll usually find him.
I recall a time during my teenage years, when I did something rather reckless. I had my parents car out for a night on the town, while another friend had his parents car. On a local highway, we were seeing who could go the fastest...Now, a Dodge 600 can only go so fast - so it's not like we were zipping along at great speeds....but the truly reckless part of the story was that I would occassionally turn off the headlights so that I would not be seen by my friend, and perhaps gain an advantage over him. It's amazing that many of us are still alive, considering the things that we've done. Hopefully, Colby won't follow in that particular footstep.
Recklessness, such as in my story, is just plain dumb. However there is a time for being reckless - at least in the sense of throwing caution to the wind. Jesus Christ was almost always going to the people and places that no one else really wanted to. Whether it was talking to and touching the 'unclean' leper; or going through Samaria to talk to the woman at the well; or caring about the 'tramp' who was caught in adultery; or even facing the dreaded cross - He did it so that people could have hope and experience transformation and life change through a relationship with God.
Today, people still find themselves in dark, troublesome places. Jesus would go to them. He would reach out to them. He would get to know them. He would love them. Jesus said that we are to follow Him, even to the dark places. This is where recklessness comes in. We in the church, so often find it much easier to do what is comfortable and easy and convenient for us...when if we were honest, we would notice that Jesus is 'out there' connecting with those in the darkness.
Am I reckless? Do I follow Jesus? Do I throw caution to the wind and say it's not about me, but it's all about Him? Whatever it takes!?!
The great thing about the church is that we are the hands and feet and voice of Jesus in the world today. Like the moon reflects the light of the sun, we are to reflect the light of the Son (Jesus) to a world that He cares for very much. At the end of the day, the only way to see darkness change is to bring light into the room. Jesus is there. Are we following?
Let me know what you think.

"Send Revival, Start with me."

Pastor Ken

Initial Post - Jan 23/07

Hi. Thank you for taking the time to view my initial "Thought of the Week". I will be updating the blog each Monday with a fresh thought - so check back often.
My first 'fresh' thought will be posted on Monday, January 29th.
Hope to see you then!

"Send Rivival, Start with Me"

Pastor Ken