Monday, May 14, 2007

I'm Back...

House shopping. It's not all that it's cracked up to be. For the last 6 weeks or so, April and I have been looking for a potential new home. We, of course, currently live in a church owned parsonage. It is up for sale and we're waiting to see if it will be bought. It needs to be sold in order for us to be able to pick out our next family abode. Because we're in limbo, and unsure as to what the future will hold, we're trying not to get too anxious about it all. However, we can't help but think of packing and preparing in the event of a move. We're certainly ready to do just that. In fact, we've already chosen a home and placed a conditional offer on it. The condition being that the parsonage sells.
Because it's out of our hands and the possibility exists that someone else could swoop in and buy up 'our' future home - we are on 'proverbial' pins and needles waiting. This is where house shopping is not all that it's cracked up to be.
It has been fun, mind you, looking at possibilities of where we may end up living. Comparing amenities of one property over those of another. Thinking of neighbourhoods in which we would like to raise our family - all within our price range, of course. Trying to haggle a 'good' bargain and sensing that we're pleased with the transaction is all a part of the excitement.
But then there's the waiting...the uncertainty...what if the parsonage doesn't sell? Will we be satisfied with going back to live there, even though we never left (it's a mind thing now)? What if someone else buys the house that we want? Oh, the inhumanity...
Whether it's buying a house, or living life in general, we can find truth and sanity in the words of Paul in Philippians 4:11-12, "I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want."
Being content truly is a secret that far too few of us have learned. We're often looking for what's next...the latest and greatest...something that will give us a thrill in life. I have fallen victim to that (or am I the guilty one).
Being content doesn't mean that we don't look for opportunities or ways in which to be better - it means that we're not stressed out, in competition with others, or comparing what we have with what we do not. I guess it's being ok with where we find ourselves at any particular moment.
House shopping...it's not that big of a deal. I just need to learn to be content.
What do you think?

"Send Revival, Start with Me."

Pastor Ken

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi there; Just checking out the Truro Church....I love your current house!! House selling/buying is definitely nerve-racking...I have experience here!!

God Bless,

Carolee (Jordon's Mom)
Say "hey" to Darren & Naomi for me!

Anonymous said...

Learning to not get your hopes up too much for something you desire is part of life's learning experience. I felt crushed so many times over the years that I worked hard at never getting too excited about anything until it actually happened. Some would say that leads to a dull life. I say the only thing worth getting your hopes up for is spending Eternity in heaven. In fact, you can be assured of it.

Fred